Many of you are opening escort services
and also booking parties as a side business. No service should book
parties unless they can manage to do it correctly. A main point is
that a few drunk men can never be referred to as a "party"
as this situation is not bookable.
I define "party" as an event
usually planned well in advance and with a theme, such as a birthday
celebration, a bachelor party, a retirement get-together. As the
business, you would send professional, experienced entertainers with
the required costumes, music, and party favors to the location. The
dancers must have security or a chaperone and there is no way that
you should ever book any party without - as I use the terms
"chaperone" and "security" they are one and the
same thing.
In past I recall services in Orlando
that booked any group of drunken men, called it a party, and sent an
escort or two to dance alone. Nothing like that will ever be a party.
I used to book parties and simply passed the information on to a
professional dancer for a fee. I quoted what the entertainer asked me
to quote and informed the client booking the party of how it would
work per my discussion with her. The entertainer called the client
back and made the final arrangement.
The dancers or entertainers should have
their own chaperone and usually this is a male friend or even a
boyfriend, but the dancers should never go alone. A professional
dancer that has worked in a decent adult club knows better than to
accept an open drink from anyone. Of course an escort should know
this too, but you'd be surprised...
An example of an escort service booking
a party that went bad is the Duke lacrosse player saga from North
Carolina back in 2006. I do consider the escort service that booked
this mess to be at fault. No way the booker should have ever sent two
escorts to a frat party without security to begin with. In the days
that followed, it became clear that Crystal Mangum accepted an open
drink at that party and if she did so there, it's more than likely
that she did so earlier as well.
While I do not pretend to know who
specifically assaulted Crystal Mangum or even whether it happened at
that party or at earlier calls she was dispatched to, it's clear to
me that she was drugged. Her statements and behavior in the 2-3 days
that followed revealed that much. Of course she was unable to
identify her attackers and it's hard for me to understand why anyone
could think it possible to begin with. In my opinion, prosecutors did
not even consider that she was drugged and I do not believe she was
tested for specific drugs (like Rohypnol) immediately after it
happened.
The name of the escort service that Ms.
Mangum worked with was Allure Escort Service in Raleigh and I have no
idea if they're still in business or not. You will find that the
articles remaining online today are biased against Ms. Mangum.
However, earlier statements made it all too obvious that she was drugged by someone somewhere -
there is no question in my mind. Yes, I was once drugged at a club in
Orlando back in the mid-1990s and I know the symptoms, lack of a
focused memory of anything etc....
Because of the way the investigation
was handled and the fact that no one bothered to test for specific
drugs, Crystal Mangum has suffered ever since. She is currently
awaiting trial on a murder charge. The main point here is that none
of this should have ever happened. If Allure did not book a bunch of
intoxicated college players and send out escorts with no chaperone,
it would not have happened.
Please follow my advice in the book as
it relates to booking parties. I will add that it is a good idea to
have a short discussion with each escort at the initial interview
concerning accepting open drinks from any client, no matter that he
is alone or how trustworthy you may believe him to be or if he is a
repeat. I recall one escort in past that was turned away from a call
because she refused to accept a glass of wine from an open bottle at
a repeat client's residence as soon as she arrived. Better safe than
sorry.
If you are unable to book parties using
professional, experienced entertainers that have their own
chaperone(s) as a side business, then do not book parties at all.
There are professional entertainment companies that you could make
arrangements with in advance to earn a referral fee.
